Gomez's Brave Motherhood Path
In her latest Vanity Fair cover feature, Gomez bravely delves into the heart-wrenching reality of being unable to safely conceive due to her ongoing health battles. Diagnosed with lupus in 2013, the Only Murders in the Building star has faced significant medical hurdles, including a kidney transplant and a public disclosure of her bipolar disorder.
Reflecting on her longing to become a mother, Gomez revealed, “I’ve never shared this before, but unfortunately, I’m unable to carry my own children. My health issues would put both my life and the baby’s at risk. It was something I had to mourn for a while.” Despite the challenges, she has come to terms with her situation and is now embracing other avenues to parenthood.
The star, who has openly discussed her interest in adoption and surrogacy, expressed gratitude for these alternatives, noting that while her journey to motherhood might take an unconventional route, it is one she is eager to embark on. “It’s not exactly how I imagined it,” she confessed, “but I feel blessed that there are wonderful people who offer surrogacy or adoption.”
Selena’s strength in the face of her health struggles has long been a source of inspiration for her fans. In her Apple TV+ documentary My Mind and Me, she was forthright about her bipolar disorder and its impact on her life, including her ability to have children. Despite the emotional weight, Gomez remains optimistic, resolute in her desire to build a family, no matter the path.
In an earlier interview with Time magazine, Gomez shared that she had set a personal goal to adopt if she hadn’t found a life partner by age 35. This openness underscores her unwavering commitment to becoming a mother, regardless of the obstacles she encounters.
At present, Gomez is enjoying a blossoming relationship with music producer Benny Blanco, whom she describes as “an absolute beacon in my life.” Although their romance is still in its early stages, the Emilia Pérez star remains focused on her future as a mother, affirming that no matter how the journey unfolds, “In the end, it doesn’t matter. The child will be mine. It will be my baby.”
